Thursday, July 28, 2016

Helper

Lately Nolan has been a really good helper with folding the laundry.  His job is to fold the washcloths and towels and to put the clothes away in their drawers.  As you can see, he takes his job very seriously, not even pausing to put clothes on after his bath before jumping to work!


Monday, July 25, 2016

Pals, Parks, Picnics, and Peeing

The other day the Lindner kids came over to play while their Mommy, Katie was doing a photo shoot.  It's always nice to spend time with them.  Isaac and Nolan have a great time together and the girls absolutely dote on Olivia.  They can't get enough of her!  (Can't wait until they're old enough to babysit!!)

Isaac (4), Cassidy (7), Lucy (9), Olivia (11 months), Nolan (3)
 We headed down to Hodag Park for a little bit in the morning.  The kids all took turns on the swings, and Cassidy and Lucy got a kick out of pushing Livi.


All of the kids were complaining that the morning was going too fast and they wanted to play longer, so I had Katie pick up some sandwiches on her way back and we had a picnic under the tree across the street.  It was a gorgeous day, sunny with a nice breeze, and it was nice to take a rest for a moment and eat our lunch.  Before we knew it, Isaac got up and walked over to our shade tree and started peeing.  Within about 3 seconds, Nolan joined in, with his pants around his ankles.  We were all in hysterics.  Isaac finished the job and came back, but Nolan being the ridiculous clown that he is, started laughing uncontrollably and took off running...with his pants around his ankles.



I chased after him, but couldn't go very fast because every few seconds I doubled over in laughter at the absurdity of chasing my son around the park with his pants down.  Every day with my Nolan is an adventure.


We finished up our picnic lunch with some ice cream drumsticks.  It was a memorable picnic.  Life is good.

Sunday, July 24, 2016

Visiting the Kennedys!

On Friday morning, we began the long five hour drive to our old neck the woods to visit some of our favorite people!  The Kennedys were my first friends when I moved to Long Prairie.  Justin was the band director and he and Crystal were a constant source of support and friendship over the five years I worked there.  Jonas (now age 10!) were a mire one year old when I first met him and he was one of the first babies I ever spent time with. The two of us became buddies and before long, little brothers Wesley and Grant joined the mix to add to the fun!  I love these boys and look forward to any chance I get to see them!  It was even more fun for me this year, because Nolan was old enough to play with them!  

Justin recently got a new boat and we got to take a ride together on their beautiful, quiet lake.
Wesley (7), Nolan (3), and Grant (5)
 The last time we saw Justin and Crystal was while I was still pregnant with Livi.  So, this was the first time they got to meet our sweet new addition.  Grant was particularly smitten with her and could often be found talking to her, tickling her, or kissing her.

Olivia (11 mo)
 All of the Kennedy boys were skilled fishermen, taking after their daddy.  They caught dozens of panfish off the dock, some which were very nice sized.  But this one was so little and Jonas was so cute, that I just couldn't resist snapping a picture.

Jonas (10)

All the kids (and Eric) enjoyed swimming.  It's been really fun this summer watching Nolan get comfortable in the water.  With his life jacket on, he'll doggie paddle almost anywhere!

Eric, Wesley, and Nolan play in the water.
 One of my favorite parts of the weekend was listening to the boys play together.  Here they were having a "party" back in the boys' bedroom.  They brought all sorts of games and danced around and were silly.  They also could be found playing "Mommy and Daddy," among other games.  So cute!

Jonas (10), Wesley (7), Nolan (3), Grant (5)

We also got to take Nolan bowling for the first time ever!   We used a ramp to help him with the ball and had the bumpers up to keep it out of the gutters.  He even got a strike!  (Which upset him because he only got to roll the ball one time that turn...)

Nolan (3), Jonas (10), Olivia (11 mo), Wesley (7), Grant (5)



It was so refreshing to get to spend time with our dear friends and I wish we had more opportunities to see them!  They were friends with us while Eric and I were still dating, watched us get engaged and married, and have a family.  Justin and I experienced the lowest lows and the highest highs of teaching together and I remain thankful that he and Crystal were confidantes and cheerleaders during those times.  It's our goal to continue to get together at least once a year and celebrate our nine years of friendship!

Thursday, July 21, 2016

Buck Lake

Yesterday the kids and I went to swim and play at Buck Lake with Grandma Patti  Nolan was fearless and really enjoyed playing motorboat with Grandma and building sandcastles.  Livi loved to splash around and was standing in the water, looking so grown up!  




I love her cute little face and that Nolan is getting ready to do a cannonball in the background.
 We saw a couple of loons swim by - a mommy, daddy, and a few babies.  We also chased a fishy around.  Nolan was really excited to see the animals.

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We're pretty lucky to live in the beautiful Northwoods, where we have the opportunity to enjoy the outdoors.  Buck Lake is crystal and absolutely perfect for little ones to swim.  It was a fun afternoon!

Haircut

Nolan got a new haircut yesterday and I must say he looks so very grown up!  And handsome!  Slow down, little big man! 



Standing!

Livi Lu is growing by leaps and bounds and is standing on her own!  She's so cute with her little bowed legs set widely apart.  And she's so proud of herself!  She actually even took two steps last night!  She'll be running everywhere before long!  



Just like Daddy...

My husband has many wonderful qualities, but he sleeps with his mouth gaping open and thrashes around like a wild animal.  It looks like Little Lu inherited some of Daddy's sleeping genes!



Double bath!

Nolan and Livi took their first bath together the other night and boy, did they have fun!  The entire bathroom floor was soaking from their splashing, which made it the opposite of the time saver we were hoping for.  At least they had a good time!


Elliot

Even though we were bombarded by gnats and flies as soon as we got out to ride, it was still good to spend time with this sweet boy.  


Buddies

Life is good when eating an ice cream cone with your buddy!


Rhubarb anyone?!

My rhubarb plant is giant.  Like 5 feet around and taller than Miles giant.  And I haven't had time to make jam yet this year.  Rhubarb anyone?


Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Hoof and Mouth

This past week has been particularly challenging.  Over the 4th of July weekend, my kids were unknowingly exposed to Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease.  Nolan was acting rather subdued all day Sunday, but by dinner time he had the chills and had no appetite.  We attributed it to him being overtired from his weekend visit with Grandpa Jim and Grandma Marcia.  However, by 8pm he woke up crying and had a high fever.  I gave him some Tylenol and got a cool rag and pretty soon he was back to sleep.  But by 1am he was up again, this time to vomit.  He vomited a couple times, but then was able to go back to sleep and it seemed like he was doing better.


The next morning, he was still running a fever and he spent most of the morning napping on the couch.  Later that afternoon, I noticed Livi had thrown up during her nap.  Figuring she had the same bug as Nolan I took her temperature.  She also had a fever, so I gave her some Tylenol and hoped for the best.

By 11:30 that night, Livi was awake with a high fever and was miserable.  I cooled her down with a cool cloth and she was able to get back to sleep, but when she and Nolan both woke the next morning, they had rashes all over their bodies, particularly around their mouths.



I took them into Dr. Slette the next morning and she quickly diagnosed them with Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease.  They both had sores all over the inside of their mouths, which were keeping them from wanting to eat.  The worst news was that they were highly contagious and could not leave our house for several days until the fever and spots were gone.  


I went to the store to stock up on popsicles, pudding, bananas, and juice to help my little sweeties want to eat something.  But when it came time for Livi to go to bed that night, she just would NOT go to sleep.  I tried driving her (twice), I walked with her, I bounced her, I tried taking her in my room, the family room, and her bedroom, I tried music, I tried books, I tried a bottle, popsicles, and juice.  NOTHING worked.  I was up with her until 3 in the morning.  It was awful. Every time she tried to put her little thumb in her mouth, she ended up wailing in pain because it was covered in painful blisters, as was the inside of her mouth.  The next night was 1:30am and finally by the third night she went to sleep rather easily.

Thankfully now, 10 days out, the fevers are long gone and the spots are dried up.  I'm glad they're feeling better.  It's so hard when they're not feeling well and there's little I can do to help them! We had to laugh though, because Grandma Patti told everyone the kids had Hoof and Mouth Disease. ;)




While Mommy was away...

The only reason I was able to go on this trip was because of my amazing husband, family, and friends that I knew would take excellent care of my babies while I was gone.  I have to admit, I was still VERY nervous.  I knew, without a doubt, that my kids would get the very best care.  I had no doubts that all of my wonderful helpers would give them lots of love and attention.  I was mostly worried about the fact that I had never been away from my kids for more than two nights.  Ever.  Since I became a mom.  And here I was, going to be away for twelve nights.  With me being a stay at home mom, my kids rarely have a moment where I'm not around, so I just didn't want them to miss me too much with this gigantic change in their routine.  

I left them daily notes, explaining where I was each day and what we would be up to.  And they had a lot of fun activities planned.  They went to Paul Bunyan's Restaurant up in Minocqua.  They played in the sprinkler and swimming pool with Daddy.  They spent time at Grandma Patti's house and my good friend, Katie's house, and they did absolutely wonderful.  I was even able to call them a few times while I was gone, which was awesome.





When I first told my good friend, Katie, about the possibility of this trip, she enthusiastically encouraged me to go, and offered to watch my kiddos for a couple days, too.  I will forever be thankful for this!  She also keeps a blog, and left me this sweet post while I was overseas and she was watching my babies.  


Dear Mama                                                                                                                June 23, 2016

My dear friend Tiffanie is taking a once in a lifetime trip with some very special women in her life.  It was not an easy decision for her to make, since it meant leaving her children home for an extended period of time, but one that I am sure she will be glad she made.  I have the privilege of helping to watch her children for a few days.  This post is for her. ♥

Dear Mama,

Hi!!



We are having a lot of fun while you are away!  We miss you but Daddy and his helpers are doing a wonderful job.   We are being good and minding our manners!  Katie watched us the other day, and you know her.  She always has her camera out! We played spies and Nolan was 'Agent Ory'.  He loved the glowing spy glasses!  We also ninja kicked, swatted at, danced through and raced around the bubble machine.  We could do that for hours!





Look at me here, Mom.  I am such a big girl eating lunch after my morning nap! I napped really well- for 2 hours even though Daddy forgot my fuzzy blankee at home. (But shhhhhh! Daddy told me not to tell you that! ;) ) Katie had one almost like it and I never knew the difference.  Katie told me she secretly wants another baby just like me.  I am pretty sure between her and Cassidy and Lucy that my head got kissed almost as many times as you kiss it in a day.



I had fun walking around the yard like a bear and they started calling me 'Livie-Bear'.


Katie fed me well, but I decided for snack that I needed a little fiber. 


Katie made sure to give us extra  hugs and I heard sweet Nolan tell Katie that he loved her about 15 times.  I am pretty sure it made her heart melt. ♥ (I also heard him tell her 'It's happening!' when she told him he could not have fruit snacks because he just had his popsicle... lol!)


We really miss you mom, but we know you are having a great time and will be home soon.  We love you so much and can't wait to hear all about your vacation!

Love,

Livie

I just feel so very, very blessed to have such wonderful friends and family that encouraged me to go on this amazing trip.  They were all willing to take on so much extra work in order to let me go and make some memories with my mom, grandma, aunt, and cousin.  The kids did absolutely great and I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to have some wonderful travel experiences and make some lasting memories!

Rome and Vatican City

I was up early Friday morning and just couldn't get back to sleep.  After tossing and turning for a while, I realized Mom was up too, and the two of us headed up to the top deck of the ship to watch the sunrise.


It was already warm and the forecast told us we would be touring in yet another 100 degree day.  But everything quiet and still in the wee hours of the morning and everyone should experience an Italian sunrise at least once in their life!  



After a tearful parting from our ship and the crew, we boarded our bus for our final tour day.  The moment I got on the bus I sensed trouble.  The curtains were all open and the bus was not running.  That meant that the scorching sun was already beating full force into a bus that did not have any air conditioning running.  For most of the trip, my tendency to get motion sick was managed easily by a Scopalamine patch behind my ear.  However, this was not nearly enough to withstand the winding roads in a crazy hot bus on the way to Rome.  It was not longer before I was in trouble.  I was white as a ghost and hyperventilating.  I couldn't feel my fingers or toes and I thought I was going to vomit.  I grabbed a plastic bag and made my way to the front of the bus, where some of the other passengers helped me with some cold, wet cloths.  We asked the bus driver to turn up the air, and by the time we arrived at the Vatican I was feeling much better.

The first surprising thing to me was that Vatican City was completely walled off from the rest of Rome.  The next thing that surprised me was the sheer number of people.  There were hundreds of people gathered outside of the walls of the City.  In my mind, I envisioned this being a quiet, reverent visit without lines or any notice of the people around us.  Instead, this was more like a line at a DisneyWorld attraction.  We learned quickly why the tour guides held umbrella handles with different colored cloths up high; It was because once you got into the great mass of people, it was nearly impossible to see the rest of your group, let alone your tour guide.


We began our shuffle through the halls of the Vatican Museum.  Kristin likened it to being at Best Buy on Black Friday.  It was a pretty good analogy.  There were people everywhere.  It was not even really possible to stop and look at anything, let alone really take a picture.  What we could see was certainly beautiful and I think the ceilings were some of the most impressive.






After what seemed like miles of hallway, we came to our first outdoor area which gave us our first glimpse of St. Peter's Basilica.  


Again, we continued through the masses of people, trying to stay together and keep up with our tour guide when we arrived to the entrance of the Sistine Chapel.  I never really realized before that the Sistine Chapel's main purpose is to house the council voting in the event that a new Pope would need to be chosen.  It is from the chimney of the Sistine Chapel where the white or black smoke comes out, indicating to the faithful whether or not an agreement has been made.  Even while Michelangelo was painting the famous ceiling, he was required to keep the scaffolding off to the side in case the chapel was needed for its most important and sacred duty. Those who entered the chapel must be wearing modest clothing and there was to be no talking or photographing when inside.  Of course, just like on Black Friday, there were people who felt that the rules didn't apply to them.  As we were herded over to the left hand side of the chapel, we saw several cameras out and one man even knelt down in front of us to take a picture so that the guards wouldn't see him.  While I was busy giving him my stinkiest stink eye, our group disappeared.  The dull roar of people's talking began and the guards yelled "Silencio!" over a loudspeaker, silencing the crowd for only a moment.  I looked to the two doors to my left and my right and saw the edge of Grandma head through the door on the left.  I pulled Mom in that direction and we went as quickly as we could, trying to get caught up with the rest of our group.  But once we found Grandma and Michelle, we realized that they were lost too, along with about 5 other members of the group.  We hurried back to the Chapel, but were directed by a guard to go back around and start our tour of the Chapel over again.  Without nothing what else to do, we obeyed, hoping that our group was waiting for us on the other end of the Chapel.  However, once we got through a second time our group was still nowhere to be found.  We kept thinking our group would be waiting for us somewhere, but there were so many people and it was just impossible to find anyone familiar in a sea of ten thousand.  Finally one of our group members was able to connect with the rest of our group on their phone and someone came back to get us.  It was about an hour and a half of being lost and none of these places were air conditioned.  It was hot, confusing, and frustrating.

Interior of the Sistine Chapel


Once reunited with our tour guide, we went on a fast forward tour of the rest of the place.  We went into St. Peter's Basilica, the stunning home of Michelangelo's Pieta,  and the burial place of St. Peter, as well as many other Popes, including John Paul II.  The architecture is stunning and I can only imagine the beauty and holiness in celebrating a Mass there.  

Looking up into the dome

St Peter's altar.  St Peter himself is believed to be buried underneath.

Can you believe all the people?  I've heard 25,000 people tour the Basilica daily.

After only a few minutes inside, our tour guide was pushing us on out the door to catch up with our group.  We exited into St. Peter's Square, which was also stunning.



After finding a few souvenirs for me and my kiddos, we headed back to the bus to begin the next part of our stay in Rome.  

Conveniently our bus brought us to the main taxi station in the City Center.  A man helped us get a taxi, but with five of us and all of our luggage we were unable to all fit into one vehicle.  So Mom, Grandma, and I loaded in the first one and left Michelle and Kristin there to wait for the next one.  Rome is such an interesting city when driving through it, because you'll see ancient historic sites like the Coliseum mixed in with modern day shops, restaurants, and grocery stores.  I sat in the front with the cab driver and we chit chatted along the way.  It wasn't long before we arrived at our Air B&B apartment.  I helped haul the luggage up onto the curb, leaving Mom to pay the fare.  Once I got the luggage up, I looked over to Mom and realized that she and the driver were having quite an argument.  I walked over there to see what was going on.  The fare was 28 euro and Mom gave him 30, a 20 and a 10.  While he was walking to the cab immediately before, Mom saw him pull out a 5 and he swapped it with the 10 she had given him, accusing her of underpaying.  It was getting pretty heated, which was interesting considering how friendly he had been up until that point.  What was also interesting, was that the moment I got over there, he changed his tune and "found" the 10 that she had given him.  We parted ways and shortly thereafter, Michelle and Kristin arrived.

We met our host, Davide and his sister, who showed us their apartment.  It was a spacious three bedroom 2 bathroom apartment with a kitchen and dining area.  It was air conditioned (thank goodness!) and only a few blocks from the Vatican.  It was about 3pm and we hadn't eaten anything since breakfast, so after getting our luggage put away, we headed out to find something to eat.  Most restaurants were closed at this time of day, so we ended up at a little deli sandwich shop.  We grabbed several sandwiches, chips, and a few drinks and walked back across the street to eat them at our apartment.  We finally sit down and open our sandwiches to discover that every last one of them were moldy.  Like really moldy.  It was so frustrating and after the cab driver's nastiness it just really made us feel vulnerable and unwelcome.  Kristin took the sandwiches back to the shop and the man did give our money back, blaming a cooler malfunction.  She was able to find some other sandwiches that at least tied us over until dinner.

Moldy lunch. Yum.

We were all so exhausted from the heat that we took a few hours to just relax before heading out on our dinner adventure.  It turns out that our host from Air B&B's family owned a restaurant right across the street, so around 7:30, we headed over there to see what we could find.  We started looking through the menu to see what sounded good when the waiter came over.  He said, "I'll bring something," grabbed our menus and went back to the kitchen.

When he returned, he brought us wine, bottles of water, three different kinds of pizza (white 4 cheese, margharita, and sausage and mushroom), linguini, and many appetizers to try.  He brought an omelet dish, grilled eggplant, octopus ceviche, thinly sliced cooked carrots served cold, and bruschetta.  All was delicious!  The kicker of this whole thing was that when he brought us the bill, he only charged us for the pizzas and the water bottles.  All of the apps and the wine, he provided for us at no charge.  It made us feel so welcome and we were so touched.  It was fun to get to sample so many different Roman dishes and our waiter gave us one of the best experiences we had in our entire stay in Rome.





After a good night's sleep, we awoke to yet another 100 degree day.  In the chaos of our Vatican tour the day before, I had forgotten to get a souvenir for Brigid, so Mom, Grandma and I decided to walk the couple blocks back to St. Peter's Square to pick something out.  Again, it was a hot walk, but the square itself seemed less crowded and it was nice to get a second look at some of the most important buildings of the Church.  


When we returned to our apartment, we made a plan for the rest of the day.  We decided that since we were in Rome, we would regret not seeing the Coliseum, so we took an Uber cab down to that area.  We ended up needing two vehicles again, and each one cost us about 60 euro one way!  We found a little restaurant for lunch and I figured that I needed to try some authentic Italian spaghetti.  It was good, but nothing particularly special.  It was definitely nothing like the gnocchi I had a few days ago in Sicily...

Eric said it looked like Chef Boyardee.


After lunch we walked up the block to the Coliseum.  It is so unbelievably huge.  Just enormous.  Because of the heat and everyone's fatigue levels, we opted not to take the tour so as to not have to do all of the steps.  But, it sure was impressive.




We shopped around the area for a while and found an awesome Italian leather purse store that smelled so wonderfully like the butter soft leather.  We snagged a few purses for gifts and for ourselves and headed back toward the taxi station to get a ride back to our apartment.  While on our way, Michelle tripped on an uneven piece of sidewalk and fell.  We didn't know it then, but she actually broke her foot.  (We also didn't know that Grandma broke her toe earlier in the week, while tripping on a suitcase in our Stateroom!)  We managed to find a cab that all of us would fit in and headed back to our apartment.  Because Michelle (and Grandma) were hurting, we stopped at a grocery store to pick up a few things to make supper at our apartment so they wouldn't have to walk any more than absolutely necessary.

The next morning it was time to head home!  Kristin's flight home left very early, so she had to leave by taxi before the rest of us were even awake.  Our host, Davide, had arranged for his cousin to transport us to the airport and so we began the 45 minute drive.  Once we got out of the main part of the city, we saw a huge open field next to the highway, all filled with freshly baled round bales.  It certainly reminded us of home.

The airport was a flurry of activity and lines, and because Grandma and Aunt Michelle were out of commission, I was charged with pushing the cart with the hundreds of pounds of luggage on it.  We got our baggage checked without incident and were ready to board the plane.  It was a direct flight to Minneapolis, so 10 1/2 hours.  Fortunately, after a couple glasses of the complimentary wine, I was able to sleep for at least an hour or two.  The rest of the flight went fast and before we knew it, we were to the MSP airport!  It felt so good to be home, but surreal that our epic vacation was over!  Mom and Grandma headed to the Eau Claire shuttle, Michelle was picked up by Michael, Kristin was en route to Dallas, and I headed through the airport to get on my 29 minute flight to Rhinelander.
As we flew into the Northwoods, I noticed how lush and green everything was and I noticed the many beautiful lakes and rivers and was breathless at the beauty around me.  It's funny how after being in some of the most celebrated places in the world for beauty, the Northwoods still holds its own.  We truly do live in a beautiful part of the world and I'm proud to call it home.

I'm so glad that I got this amazing opportunity to make these memories with these beautiful, strong, and important women in my life.  This is trip we will always look back on fondly and be grateful that we got to share this time together.